Just enjoy not sitting at home. Sometimes just going through the motions helps.
Sounds to me that if he says those things, he can take whatever you are going through. let him decide what is too much or not enough. He's a grown-up. Be honest, ask him to do the same. If you can keep it that way between you, don't worry about it. Enjoy the company.good advice, I have been totally honest with him and he really thinks it is a good thing for us to hang out with each other right now. He has been through it and says he understands the need for company. We have only been on a few dates, and when we are together, it is nice. But then...I question everything, is this fair to him, do I even want to start something when I am not sure I am ready. I didn't go looking for this, he found me. Anyway, I will proceed with caution, knowing what I do about how my heart is still in pieces. Maybe if I get the bandaid on there long enough, it will stick
He said that? I like him.OK guys, which is it? I am truthful with the guy he says he enjoys my company. I say it is a risk, he says "what isn't". I know that no matter where my heart is right now, there is no going back, ex-H has made that brutally clear. I certainly don't want to be the cause of anyone else's heartache. I was away for almost a week and we did quite a bit of texting and keeping in touch, it was nice. I am looking forward to seeing him when I get home, but not the kind that wants him to pick me up at the airport. He offered, I said no. Sometimes it feels like a Jerry Seinfeld thing, I wish I had all the rules they know about dating. Anyway, I will be cautious and continue to encourage him to do the same. Definitely want to go easy before the holidays, I am not doing any family things with him and won't invite him to mine. Too much, too soon for sure