I just want to say that coming to this web site has helped me see the light in different way. (My marriage) I have gotten on other subjects on TAM and made my replies. Some, I laughed at especially the ones about smelling this and that. I just want to say, I thought I was going to be miserable during my separation / reconcilment and so far TAM has helped me see that everyone has issues no matter what! Men get broken hearted just as much as women & life goes on. ITS TRUE I CANT CONTROL HIS BEHAVIOR! If there was another women. If it happens it happens. I gone on a rollercoaster ride for this one year of separation and I will not deal with another fight about this issue. I will just fly away and start a new life and have fun....