Hold strong brother. You have some dark hours ahead of you but don't let your brain drive you crazy. Try to keep yourself busy and always know you did the right thing by walking away from a toxic relationship. Time heals all wounds.My plan that I had only crumbled at the edge and I have already spoken to a divorce lawyer and will meet with her next week. We are both about to turn 50. Our children are from previous marriages none together.
I only showed enough for her to realize that I was not tolerating any more of her lies,excuses or anything on that line and I had made my decision that it was over. She sent a text to me around 10:00 am stating that her vehicle broke and wouldn't move and was stranded in the road. So being the nice guy that I am I said well call this number and I'm sure he will be more than willing to help you and sent her lovers phone number to her then immediately followed up with what was I thinking you already have that number.
I guess all this has turned me a little to the revenge side and it feels good to release a little back at her. When I confronted her last night after things cools a little I told her she needed to find a place to stay for the night and she agreed and as soon as she was out of the driveway I started loading up everything that was hers into my enclosed trailer and finished with it all this morning and towed it to her mother's house unhooked it told her mother what has been happening and said everything she owns is in there and she could keep the trailer and not to come back to my property or I will have her arrested. She has since tried to call and text me so many times that I had to block her number from my phone.
It really sucks and I am really depressed but at the same time I feel like I can breathe again for the first time in better than a month.
She played with fire and got burned. She must not be very smart.Check this out my STBEW has been running around town claiming that she caught me having an affair on her so I uploaded my video of me asking OM how long has he been ****ing my wife to my Facebook page so now let the truth be known