She’s an accomplished liar. All cheaters lie a lot. They prey on people like you. You are honest and think everyone is like you. Sorry but that’s not how it works.Okay I have to give you all a update. I walked out on my front porch this morning and there was my ex sitting in a chair so I said what are you doing here and she started sobbing begging me to hear her out so I said okay.
She goes on to say that had only been texting the OM for 2 weeks and that it was just some **** way to pass time at work, that they never spent time together and the never had sex.... I said to her that was not what them text said in fact it said the very opposite of what you just said and here is why.
You don't tell someone "I MISS YOU TOO BABY" unless there has been a pause in the time spent together prior and you are missing that time spent together.
You don't tell someone that you made dinner for them unless you both had talked about him making you dinner prior.
You don't tell someone that " HE DIDNT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WAS NOT HANGING OUT TONIGHT" that night unless you had previously hung out with him.
and then she responds with
"I'M SORRY I CAN'T TONIGHT WE HAVE TO BE HERE UNTIL MIDNIGHT AND OUR LINE CANT BLUELINE. So she apologized to him about tonight and explains "WHY" she can't hang out with him that night.
I don't think anyone in this world would interpret or draw a different conclusion than what I did but would love to hear if I am missing another direction it was going ?
Trying to get the truth out of her is a waste of time. You know the truth. Accept it or keep yourself in limbo.