Discovered my wife and an ex-boyfriend exchanged over 2000 texts between each other in less than a month last year. I confronted her and she blamed me for it. She said I didn't initiate sex enough and didn't make her feel wanted. We may have done that to each other to some degree, but I don't think it justifies what she did. It seems to have stopped after I confronted her. But I think she fell out of love with me and now longs for him. He is in another state, so it can't work out between them, because of kids. We have been separated now for 3 months and I am a mess. My trust has been destroyed and I am constantly wondering what she is really up to. Is there really any chance of reconciliation?