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1- Been married for 5 years and we have two toddlers
2- Wife stay home mom and half time online school.
3- I work full time with full time grad school
4- I work 4 days long hours and I have 3 days off
- I'm semi Lazy person, I dont help as much in the house ( not sure what normal husband suppose to do) I put kids to sleep. take family once a week out and twice and once a week I take them to my parents.
- I like to dress up for work and always like to have nice dress up clothing
- stopped working out few months ago ( 5 months) i gained 20LB
- I work in a large Business area.
My problem
- Wife Does not take care of her self. Today is the 10/31 and as I remember that last time she did her hair was Saturday 10/27.
- she wears same old home wear things even I seems to buy her new stuff for the house every once and a while but i feel like I dont see them.
- I'm not sure how to put this without hurting anyone, but you see some woemn beautiful naturally without any make up and no matter what they wear at home they look decent. well, my wife does not look that way and has to take care of herself with make up to look beautiful ( I mean home make up). wife has perfect body I'm talking, J Lo, J Aniston Body.
- sometimes when we go out, she barely touch her face with make up.
- we have talked so many times. I told her about my concern and fursteration and told her even I could cheat because she dont take care of herself. I told her I meet and see alot women at my work place and they are super hot and dress up nice.
I told her that in so many ways. she does make up for a day or may be two then stops.
- a year ago I even told her sister and her mom that I need a solution they talked to her and changed.
- just last week, we get in argument about something, then early morning while at work she text me saying I dont love you and I'm not even attracted to you out of no where.
- got home and gave her flowers i picked from garden and she said she was mad about an argument we have.
- if you ask me. yes I'm not in love with her like I used to be and not attracted to her physically because I dont her freaking body with these daily home clothes she wears.
- even all of that I still try to kiss her and tell her I love you and hug her daily just to keep myself and my family together.
sorry for my typos when I'm fursterated and mad I type very fast and skip words and letters.
by the way she is 30 and I'm 31.
I'm 5'10' weight 215lb with built features and extra weight.
2- Wife stay home mom and half time online school.
3- I work full time with full time grad school
4- I work 4 days long hours and I have 3 days off
- I'm semi Lazy person, I dont help as much in the house ( not sure what normal husband suppose to do) I put kids to sleep. take family once a week out and twice and once a week I take them to my parents.
- I like to dress up for work and always like to have nice dress up clothing
- stopped working out few months ago ( 5 months) i gained 20LB
- I work in a large Business area.
My problem
- Wife Does not take care of her self. Today is the 10/31 and as I remember that last time she did her hair was Saturday 10/27.
- she wears same old home wear things even I seems to buy her new stuff for the house every once and a while but i feel like I dont see them.
- I'm not sure how to put this without hurting anyone, but you see some woemn beautiful naturally without any make up and no matter what they wear at home they look decent. well, my wife does not look that way and has to take care of herself with make up to look beautiful ( I mean home make up). wife has perfect body I'm talking, J Lo, J Aniston Body.
- sometimes when we go out, she barely touch her face with make up.
- we have talked so many times. I told her about my concern and fursteration and told her even I could cheat because she dont take care of herself. I told her I meet and see alot women at my work place and they are super hot and dress up nice.
I told her that in so many ways. she does make up for a day or may be two then stops.
- a year ago I even told her sister and her mom that I need a solution they talked to her and changed.
- just last week, we get in argument about something, then early morning while at work she text me saying I dont love you and I'm not even attracted to you out of no where.
- got home and gave her flowers i picked from garden and she said she was mad about an argument we have.
- if you ask me. yes I'm not in love with her like I used to be and not attracted to her physically because I dont her freaking body with these daily home clothes she wears.
- even all of that I still try to kiss her and tell her I love you and hug her daily just to keep myself and my family together.
sorry for my typos when I'm fursterated and mad I type very fast and skip words and letters.
by the way she is 30 and I'm 31.
I'm 5'10' weight 215lb with built features and extra weight.