You have to stand firm on your decisions. Don't let him emotionally control you and abuse you emotionally!! You have to stand your ground. I understand it's rough with children in the house but he needs to play by his own rules and if he's not suppose to have time with the kids yet, he needs to be somewhere else per your agreement.
You working late doesn't matter and is just something he can use to bully you with, do not let him. If your children are being watched over/taken care of while you're at work that's all that matters. Of course the kids are going to miss daddy, my own daughter misses me to death when she is with mommy and she talks constantly about me and wanting to be with daddy, it's only natural for children.
Can you start no contact with him? Him calling and chewing you out at work is a sign he still thinks he is in control of you, it's time you stand up for yourself and stop letting him emotionally control you. Don't let him make you feel guilty.
You working late doesn't matter and is just something he can use to bully you with, do not let him. If your children are being watched over/taken care of while you're at work that's all that matters. Of course the kids are going to miss daddy, my own daughter misses me to death when she is with mommy and she talks constantly about me and wanting to be with daddy, it's only natural for children.
Can you start no contact with him? Him calling and chewing you out at work is a sign he still thinks he is in control of you, it's time you stand up for yourself and stop letting him emotionally control you. Don't let him make you feel guilty.