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How would a woman react if her boyfriend/fiance/husband suggested she do kegels for a few months before the first time they have sex?

Assume in this case that both are virgins.
 

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Unless she's a virgin at 50 or incontinent, she probably doesn't need them.

Suggest he buy a vacuum pump in return and see if he can't add an inch or two in time for the honeymoon.
 

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Why the hell would a virgin man tell that to his virgin fiance? Does he know what kegel exercises are? And for what they are used for? It sounds like either he is a tad bit ignorant about the subject or they are not "virgins" anymore.
 

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Thanks for all of your messages. My fiance suggested it to me, but I didn't know how to react. I thought it was very sweet of him to be thinking of me and my pleasure, and that he was going to try to be ready too, but I still didn't really know how to react.

...unnecessary....and don't bank on orgasming (thru intercourse) anytime soon, if you're the virgin in question...
Anything advice? I know I shouldn't expect it...and I don't want to fake it :/

All I know is that if I feel that I need to pee...I shouldn't hold back....will just make sure to go before we start :)
 

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If you want to increase your chance of orgasm, masturbate and get to know your body so you can guide him with what to do when the time comes.

Guaranteed he masturbates and could tell you exactly what to do.

I am not sure about the kegels suggestion. I would be very curious what the heck he was reading that he even knows what they are. The two of you should be investigating this stuff together.
 

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If you haven't self-pleasured yourself, you should do that first. Kegels aren't an issue for you. You're probably very tight considering you're a virgin. What you should do is find out from self exploration what makes you come. All the kegels in the world won't help with that if you haven't O'd on your own.
 

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That makes sense...but what you mention is rather taboo in my culture :/
I married a woman who was for all intents and purposes a virgin and who rarely if ever masturbated. It took most of our first year married for her to learn how to climax during sex.

Just so you know going in.
 
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