Been married 14 yrs,and separated 6 months. We had another counseling appt today, between the counselor and my wife came the conclusion that our marriage is over. My wife said she is not sexually attracted to me anymore. So she said we need to go our separate ways. Why is it that some people think that marriage is not that big of a deal?!?! I spent almost half my life with you, and your like,oh lets get a divorce!!! Buncha ****!!!!!