I think the best suggestion for how men can understand what woman women want is built around a joke I have posted before... truth is sometimes folded into comedy:
A man goes into the attic to clean out the junk comes across the proverbial lamp. He rubs it and out come a genie.
Genie - I grant thee one wish
Man - Build me a bridge from CA to Hawaii.
Genie - I give you a wish and that is what you ask for? Not money not power?
Man - I need to take a vacation sometimes, but I hate flying. (he reconsiders)... You know what I really just want you to explain what women want and what it means when they say or do.... (long laundry)
Genei - so would you like that bridge made of steel or concrete.
A man goes into the attic to clean out the junk comes across the proverbial lamp. He rubs it and out come a genie.
Genie - I grant thee one wish
Man - Build me a bridge from CA to Hawaii.
Genie - I give you a wish and that is what you ask for? Not money not power?
Man - I need to take a vacation sometimes, but I hate flying. (he reconsiders)... You know what I really just want you to explain what women want and what it means when they say or do.... (long laundry)
Genei - so would you like that bridge made of steel or concrete.