I have been married to my beautiful wife for over 15 years. We have 3 beautiful kids and both have successful jobs. I compare our relationship to a chocolate cake. We have all of the ingredients to make a great cake, but we are missing the chocolate! By chocolate, i mean sex! My wife has absolutely no sex drive. We have struggled with this for 15 years. I feel like it has gotten to the point where we have compromised. Well, i compromise by simply not getting any! The last time we had sex was over 3 months ago. It was, in my opinion, purely out of guilt and fulfilling her wifely duties. Believe me when I say, that is not the way I want it. Usually, when we have sex, it is a quickie or as plain jane as you can, just so that it is over as quickly as possible. In the past, i have been able to give her an orgasm, but it usually requires toys, or oral. Now, it has gotten to a point where she doesn't allow me to give her oral and using the toys is a seldom thing. I love having sex with my wife, but I am at the point now where I am sick and tired of having to beg for it and the constant rejection. I absolutely do not want to leave her and i refuse to cheat on my wife, but i am really in a place where i don't know what to do! Is there anyone else out there with the same issue that has found a solution??