Is this where the “cheaper to keep her” clause gets invoked?had consultation with lawyer, he laid out that her gone only a weekend will not count against abandonment. My state is a no fault state, i will be paying child support for two kids 10+ years and probably paying her alimony then she will get half my retirement cause we have been married the whole time i've been working. How in the hell is this fair ??? I really didn't think divorce would screw me over like this! So she basically gets to screw someone and then whats my payment for loyalty.....aw Sir you have to work another 10 years to get back what you lost....sorry for your luck.. No fault state ****.........to answer you all I have been doing 180 and just staying away as much as i can, she on other hand has already said she doesn't want to do marriage therapy. I didn't even ask her but she kinda just comes out and tells me things even when I dont ask.
at the hotel she repeatedly tells me they didn't have sex there, said he showed up on the first day and told her he wasn't leaving his wife because he needed health insurance as I guess hes self employed or something. I was her "PLAN B" just as everyone said LoL ! Everything just makes me sick. She said they have been talking for 4 months so it wasn't just a quick 1 or 2 month affair