I been have married for about 11 years or so in which I thought was a pretty good marriage or so it seemed. I used to work midnites, and I caught my wife one nite gone from our house on my 2am lunch break. my nine, and 14 yr old were in the house sleep. I waited a block from the house trying guess why she would leave when she pulled up to the house. she did not see me, and this was not the first time I found she went out this late. when I asked her she said she was visiting a friend (girl) who was having "man" problems. I did not know this friend. this was when I started to examine all the little issues that we were having in our marriage. I feel alone in this or am I?... There's a lot more to this story, if you wan't to know. just wanting to know if anyone cared.