i understand, my stbxw told me she had to serve me papers and get my signature or she would send the policeSTBXW was coming to pick the last of her stuff up. She bought a city cop into my apartment while she was getting her things. I was seriously laughing at the entire situation. I'm an LEO also and told the cop "does she really think im going to ruin my career over her? LOL" I was just shooting the **** with him for about 15min while her and her dumb friends labored to get everything out.
i told her to send the police
i was a cop for 6 years, would rather talk to them anyways at this point
still haven't seen um