IN my state the 2 spouses have to sign and notarize a "marital agreement" between each other. I took this paper to STBXH mother on Monday to have him sign it in front of a notary and then return it to me. I gave her the paper a week ago and he keeps giving me false deadlines on when he will return them, first he could get them to me Saturday, Saturday turned into Monday and now Monday is Tuesday. I'm not sure if he has been served with the divorce papers yet, he has 20 days to respond and then the process really starts, so I want to make sure I have all the necessary paperwork ready to be filed, when that day comes. After all the paperwork is finally filed, we have an additional 90 day waiting period (new state law), before our divorce will be final. Why is he dragging his feet? This is so frustrating. What can I do to make him move faster? He had an affair with his married co-worker, at first wanted to file for divorce 2 weeks after we separated and now he is dragging his feet getting it done. His excuse today was he went snowboarding....