I have a 2 year old, STBXH had an EA and I am not sure but think a PA too! We're separated but kinda still live together, long story. Point is, when he doesn't sleep here which is the majority of the time, he doesn't even bother call his son to say good night. Even when he sleeps here, and is 'at work' till 2 am, he doesn't bother communicate being late nor call the child! I don't understand why he thinks that is okay!!!! Our child stands at the door looking for him, I text him and tell him to call him to say goodnight, then I call him right before bed and he doesn't answer, then i leave a voicemail, and nothing. I don't understand how someone who says they love their son, wants to split custody, doesn't even bother call their own child and tell them good night. How should I address this?i feel so bad for the poor baby! I tell him his dad loves him very much, but I can tell that he's disappointed that he is not there. Maybe I'm reading too much into his reaction, but it breaks my heart to have to tell him: 'no, that's not your dad at the door.' I told stbx today this and he said 'of course' um. Of course what? You still don't call the kid!