I think we're concerned that you sound concerned about the money. That you will feel like you aren't contributing as a sah wife.Well the whole point....
I'd love him to retire with me but he most likely won't do that until he hits 30 years in.
So I can keep working and hope to convince him early which probably won't happen
Or I can be a stay at home wife, no mom about it and work to make our lifes better in ways that money doesn't.
While I can make some money trading it isn't one that will be available for household income.
Either way we can afford it. I am trying to decide if there are men that view it as worth while. Not to raise kids. I was curious what things make it worth while to a man from a man's perspective. Eveyone seems to be very concerned about the money. I guess that's an answer in itself... That money is important to most.
Men, for the most part, don't keep score on money. You've given the real answer yourself earlier in the thread. "He will be happy if I am happy". That's the core truth. If you are happy, he will be happy. That is the man's perspective boiled down to its core.