Hi - New to the forum and relatively new to marriage. I am 34yo, my husband is 36...we have been married only 10 months and are going through what I believe are the normal hardships anyone goes through during the fist years of marriage. The problem is this: we spoke about starting a family prior to getting married...originally I said I wanted three children and he said two would be fine...I am ok with this BUT he has now expressed specifically that he is not interested in having a family. He has stated that we might have 1 child but he is not excited about that at all. Our sex life has come to a complete halt and I am not sure if its because of this or because or other normal stresses (we both work very demanding jobs) but every time the conversation comes up about family...he changes it or it ends in an argument. I feel this is a real deal breaker...the children part. I am scared of wasting time..I really consider medically the issues of delaying a family and I am scared of what the next step is supposed to be. I just wondered what the forum (both men and women) thought of this situation...a general opinion would be great - its hard to speak to friends and family about something like this because I don't want anyone to have a personal opinion or to make a judgment on either of us.