I am afraid my wife is interested in another man, her personal trainer. Since joining his gym in October she has grown more and more distant and irritable. I am not proud of this, but three weeks ago, I peeked at her browser history on her smart phone, and saw a number of searches on how to have relationships with Libra men (her trainer is a Libra). Rather than disclose to her that I intentionally viewed her search history, I convinced her that I noticed an open web page after she asked me to answer her phone. This gave me the opportunity to confront her without having to play defense and be accused of spying. My wife said she was just playing around one time, has not done any searches since that time, and has absolutely no interest in her trainer. However, this is a blatant lie, because now I DO check her phone and tablet on a regular basis (again, I am not proud of this). Sure enough, she continues to do racy searches on this topic. Just now, I saw that she searched on whether a Libra man will make the first move. All of this is being done as the two of us continue to talk about our relationship issues and wait for our first marriage counseling appointment (hopefully this week). She is lying to me... but should I admit I have been sneaking around on her computers and risk the fallout? I am becoming desperately confused as I love my wife and don't want to lose her. Please help!!