I have written before in the men's clubhouse about my Wife's attractions to other men. We have been dealing with this for about 3 months. I feel that we resolved the issue with one of her particular clients but now I saw an email to a friend about a guy at the gym. I feel this situation is escalating so want to post here. For the past few months they have been smiling at each other and spoke about 2 weeks ago. He showed up at her aerobics class in street clothes and gave her his card and told her to call him and blew her a sexy kiss. She asked her friend if she should send him an e-mail to tell him she is not available or don't do anything at all. She said she is nervous he will write back and say why was I smiling at him if I'm not available. She said the truth is she is attracted him but said in her email that she checks him out but not interested in getting involved and that it is amazing how fast you can get yourself into trouble. She said he is basically an affair waiting to happen if I want it. She said I'm smart enough to not screw up my life and I love XXXXX too much to do that, but she called him a fantasy man. I am not sure what to do at this point. She knows I have access to her facebook and emails so I don't really feel like I snooped. She technically has not really done anything but this is really bothering me. I really need some advice here on how to handle this specific situation.