Hi there! My hubby and I are newlyweds. We got married about 7 months ago. I am 20 now and my husband is 31. You might think it's a big age difference, but we don't even notice it in daily life. We met each other online, I even moved to another country for him. Now, cause I was only 18 when I met him I have never slept with anyone else but him. So he obviously has more experience than me, even though he only had sex with two other women before me. My problem is: he is going online on some sex forum to look at other women and I think even chat with them. I have no problems with the fact that he wants to look. I used to, but I have grown up more and I'm ok with it now, knowing it's normal for men, and even for women to watch porn. But I have no idea what he's chatting about with those women. Before, I only saw messages from him sending them things like "I wish I could touch your body." "Hope we can cam some time." and that kind of stuff. I confronted him about it, told him that hurts me and asked him why he is talking to these women. He said he's only joking around, that he knows they won't answer cause they are all bots or something. Yet he has some pics of himself up where he shows his full body, only wearing underwear. I assume that just has something to do with his ego, but I don't understand why because I tell him all the time how good looking and sexy he is. I know he goes on this website when I even just leave the room for a minute. When he knows I'm coming back, he quickly closes it. I even asked him to use this website while I'm beside him, that he doesn't have to hide anything for me and I will know I can trust him with a pc. Now I just wonder if it's cause of our sex life. We have sex once, sometimes twice a week. I try to initiate more often than that. I kiss his neck, rub against him, nibble his ear, to let him know I'm horny. But either he's not getting it or just doesn't feel like making love more than twice a week. Sometimes we even try twice in a row, but he can never come a second time cause he says coming once makes him feel tired and can't do it a second time. I'm also very shy so if you could give me some hints of what to say to him to make him feel horny or something that would be great. Cause I think part of the reason he uses this sex forum is cause we need to spice things up a bit.