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I am engaged and we are eloping, next month. I love her to death and am thankful for her. I have never lived a wild life, by any means. I've only been with a few women and have always been involved in LTR's. Now that I'm engaged, I find myself wondering about what it's like to be wild one night. The problem is that I know someone who would love to be my "last fling" with NSA. It is so tempting, but I don't know that I could live with myself. The problem is also that I keep going back and forth on it. I hate that I'm thinking about it, at all. Then another part of me is like "well, I may never get another chance"
I know it's wrong, but it's floating out there whether I like it or not.

Any thoughts?:confused:
 

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I thought about the STD thing, too. I know you're right. I just want to expel the idea from my head.
When I think about NOT doing it, I feel better than I do when I have that moment of consideration. I was just hoping to hear what other guys do in this situation.

Thanks for the reply, Draconis
 

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Are you sure you are not questioning whether or not you want to get married?? Are you having cold feet? Instead of the fling, take that energy and plan a special evening for you and yours :) . It could be a night you never forget.
 

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That's a good point. I'm pretty confident with her, I guess I just am realizing 'oh wait, not ever going to be single' although being single wasn't all that great to begin with.
A night out is a good idea. A weekend away is even better.
 

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Now that I'm engaged, I find myself wondering about what it's like to be wild one night. The problem is that I know someone who would love to be my "last fling" with NSA. It is so tempting, but I don't know that I could live with myself.
Any thoughts?:confused:


Ask your self...............

Are you willing to damage the marriage your will have IF she was to ever find out?

For take it from a woman...... sexual betrayal is the worst kind to a female - she will NEVER be able to fully trust you again IF she found out - not to mention what will happen to the love she once held so high for you.

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Try SEX on the BEACH w/ Fiance'................. it is WILD - when mixed with the thought of possibly being seen.
 

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D&W says it well but I'd say when. What if a friend finds out? He gets jealous or close to her. Or he dates a girl that becomes friends with her? You slip up, she meets the girl? The girl tells/calls etc. because she fell for you or feels betrayed? What if she cries date rape? Explain going to court for that.

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