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Its a long story to explain bear with me,
Plz help me to help my friend. My friend has his long time girlfriend of 3 olmst 4yrs nw, they are the most awsome couple you can ever think of, i envy them, but something strange happened, they met in college, they have leaved faithfully to each other, so this gal got a job were she works 5days a week o sometimes on a satday. So at her workplace another guy was stalking her, so on this particular saturday, this workmate deviced a plan, and offered this gal to go for refreshments, and she agreed on the basis that its a workmate, so they went out, to some public botanical garden. Then a relative to my friend saw her at this place with guy, then they kept quite, never spoke to her and she too didnt know them. After a while this workmate went on to propose to her, to which she told him i olredi have my boyfriend, had i known that thats wat u wr plannin i wouldn't have been here with you. So the day closz, on the morrow she gets confronted with the guyz relatives about yesterday then she tells here boyfriend the whole story, and even went to tell her dad about it. My friend forgives her and puts it in the past, then now its 3mnths past, the parents of my friend are told by those relatives this odeal, so they pressin my friend to rethink his decision of forgivin his sweetheart. He loves her stil, now this parents issue is now stressin these two. whats your advice to this? What action must my friend take?
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No she didnt, but this guy tricked her into goin out with her so as to propose her.
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If she's easily tricked into having drinks wait until marriage problems appear and with the stress of those she'll be on his or some other dudes bed in no time.

Either the girl needs to have a big look at herself and understand what is OK and what is not or your friend needs to move on and find a different girl with better boundaries.
So basically this guy talks her into leaving the work place with him. He really doesn't know her but wants to propose? :scratchhead: That makes no sense or this guy is a "creeper".

Your friend and this girl have been dating a long time. Are they engaged, or is there no commitment? Really the busy-body relative should butt out of the situation, since your friend already knows the incident.
No she didnt, but this guy tricked her into goin out with her so as to propose her.
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she's easily tricked into having drinks wait until marriage problems appear
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