checking for various views/opinions on the topic.
I have been married going on approximately 19 years. The wife just up and stopped providing pleasure in the oral department even though I have no problem pleasing her.
She stopped doing the deed about a year and 1/2 ago. Shortly after my birthday was my last time to experience the subject matter at hand.
I am slightly suspicious that the reason she gave is just to cater to my ego and quiet me. I am suspicious because about a month later, in April, she starting talking about divorce. She then filed for divorce in Sept. 2011.
She stated that no woman should be asked to do such a thing, she has talked to other women in her life that claim they have never done the oral experience to a male. She said she can't stand the feeling or the texture of the end result of a happy ending. Also complained about the taste.
So, ladies - is it really a big deal?
Do you make a sacrifice and truly not enjoy the idea of pleasuring a man?
or
is it possible she found someone else and has made reservations for his party to have only?
or ....is their a third option I'm not aware of?
Thanks
I have been married going on approximately 19 years. The wife just up and stopped providing pleasure in the oral department even though I have no problem pleasing her.
She stopped doing the deed about a year and 1/2 ago. Shortly after my birthday was my last time to experience the subject matter at hand.
I am slightly suspicious that the reason she gave is just to cater to my ego and quiet me. I am suspicious because about a month later, in April, she starting talking about divorce. She then filed for divorce in Sept. 2011.
She stated that no woman should be asked to do such a thing, she has talked to other women in her life that claim they have never done the oral experience to a male. She said she can't stand the feeling or the texture of the end result of a happy ending. Also complained about the taste.
So, ladies - is it really a big deal?
Do you make a sacrifice and truly not enjoy the idea of pleasuring a man?
or
is it possible she found someone else and has made reservations for his party to have only?
or ....is their a third option I'm not aware of?
Thanks