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Ok, so I wanted to get some perspective about something before I say anything to my husband...if I say anything at all. A male opinion would be good, but anyone who wants to answer feel free.
My DH and I were intimate last night, it was a semi-quickie. The first time we've been intimate since his vasectomy, and also in that time things have been a little tense, but we're getting there.. Anyway, I was going down on him and for the first time ever, he grabbed my head and moved it in the rhythm he wanted it to happen (sorry for the TMI). Not too forcefully, but enough for me to be surprised. He seemed a bit more forceful in general. Moved me the way he wanted me to go, didn't ask questions, just did. In the end I was close...but then he finished. He knew it didn't quite get there for me, but really didn't seem to care. This is totally out of character for him.
Is this just something guys do sometimes? Just a bit rough and ready...not really caring how the partner feels. We've been together 4 years and this was the first time he's been like this. I don't know whether I should say something or let it drop..what'd you think?
My DH and I were intimate last night, it was a semi-quickie. The first time we've been intimate since his vasectomy, and also in that time things have been a little tense, but we're getting there.. Anyway, I was going down on him and for the first time ever, he grabbed my head and moved it in the rhythm he wanted it to happen (sorry for the TMI). Not too forcefully, but enough for me to be surprised. He seemed a bit more forceful in general. Moved me the way he wanted me to go, didn't ask questions, just did. In the end I was close...but then he finished. He knew it didn't quite get there for me, but really didn't seem to care. This is totally out of character for him.
Is this just something guys do sometimes? Just a bit rough and ready...not really caring how the partner feels. We've been together 4 years and this was the first time he's been like this. I don't know whether I should say something or let it drop..what'd you think?