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Many wayward spouses understandably want to move on and away from the affair and discussion of the affair. This is generally enouraged by most people who erroneously believe that focusing on the past;the negative is inherently a bad idea.:scratchhead:

I strongly disagree and so does much of the newest research.

Remember most therapists, like most people, are uncomfortable allowing their clients to discuss painful emotions. if your therapist is unable to allow you to process your feelings in your time frame..find a new one.

Read this article written for professionals regarding how important it is for a couple to thouroughly process the affair.

DearPeggy.com - Survey on Extramarital Affairs

Best to you and yours