There is never a day that I stay out to all hours of the night drinking or hanging out with other people. I always come home, I am in a particular Lodge Group that believes in ethics and charity. Sometimes I go to the Lodge but am never out past 10 pm. Sometimes my contributions to the house suffers and I get nagged at about that, which I feel that I deserve. But here lately I have been dealing with a women who acts like I do those things mentioned above. I am always being scolded about where I am or why I am not spending time with her (The couple of times I go out). I always spend time with her. ALWAYS. Today I got off early from work and stopped at the gym before picking up our son. I am being asked like a little kid if I picked him up, I told her no, well then why didnt I pick him up yet. I am being treated like a child by this women and today I had enough. I told her to knock it off, explain her trust issues. She claims she really trust me and then flips it as my fault to make me feel bad. Now I just don't "understand" her. Its my fault I don't understand her. I refuse to play into this anymore. Can somebody tell me what I am missing here? Is it me? Or is she just controlling? Is she insecure? Is she ok to act like I am irresponsible with our kid when I never have done anything to give anybody that impression? What am i not understanding. Any help is greatly appreciated.