Hello, everyone...Im glad I found this site it seems like a good forum for some "neutral" advice. Im in a 2.5 year marriage to great woman that I love very much. Its her 2nd and my 3rd...that disappoints me greatly but thats another story. Bottom line is Im losing my wife because I guess Im controlling, negative and insecure. I dont know how to stop or realize I do it. I never thought I was controlling, I admit negativity and I am insecure especially now that things have gotten really bad. She has agreed to counseling but my insecruities are taking over and I dont believe its in her heart. What do I do? Is it over can it be saved? Im literally sick to my stomach.