Tell your friend to read some of the stories here and tell him to man up and tell her no more gnos till all hours in the morning.So I just have to comment as I keep seeing posts about problems after Girls/Guys Nights Out. And just recently a friend of mine told me his wife came home from a girls night out drunk off her a$$ and with a big ol' hickey on her neck!
What is wrong with people? :scratchhead:
You plan a night out at the bars/clubs, without your spouse, in order to relive your youth or days gone by (i.e. when you were single and on the prowl). You get dressed up, you drink too much and then somehow you and your spouse are surprised when things take a bad turn? Really? Reeeeaaally?
YOU ARE MARRIED. ACT LIKE IT.
Does it mean never socializing with your girlfriends or the guys? No. But it does mean socializing with your girlfriends or the guys in appropriate venues and social situations. Go out for dinner, go shopping, go golfing, go see a movie.
Don't go dancing at a club. Don't go hanging out at a bar til 1:00 am. Don't head to the strip club.
And yes, I know bad things can still happen when these "innocent" activities are on the docket. But I am venturing a guess that it is far less likely to happen than when a spouse gets clearance from the tower to ***** it up.
So all you spouses out there, do NOT enable or allow this behavior. Set the boundary and demand it be adhered to. If someone wants to relive their single life one night a month, and you allow it, be prepared for them to see it through.