Hi - after a huge fight 3 weeks ago my husband and I agreed on separating to “gain some perspective”. He initially said he thought divorce was our only option. After cooling down from the fight I totally disagreed with divorce. One of the major reasons for our fight was his drinking, he also lost his job about 2 months ago. After the fight he agreed he had a serious drinking problem and was going to go to detox/rehab. He was insistent on renting an apartment with a short term lease (3 months) and going to rehab 4 hours away. During the 2 weeks leading up to separation we were very kind and supportive to each other. I tried to convince him going to rehab near home with my support was a better option but he said it would only work if he did it on his own. This would be his 3 trip to rehab for drugs/alcohol. The first 2 times were before we met. We had all the finances worked out for the separation and he agreed we would continue to talk via text and assured me he was “just a phone call away”. Basically the moment he left he must have blocked me because he didn’t respond to texts/calls. I knew from a mutual friend he was ok and arrived at his temporary new home. I believe he did the detox and as of today he indicated living in his new city on Facebook. Oh and he also stopped wearing his wedding ring a few weeks ago and removed that he was married to me on FB. I’m so confused and hurt! We have been married for 13 years and now he is totally ignoring me and removing me from his social media. What kind of person does that? I feel totally powerless over my own life! Our relationship has been mostly good with the exception of infidelity on his part 5 years ago. I feel like he has literally run away from our life together and it makes me feel totally insignificant. I’m totally lost & confused. I want our marriage to work but I can’t help feeling he wants OUT. Any advice. Thanks!