Exactly how were you the enabler? What did you (and he) do to get in this position? Why are you taking the fall?
Posted via Mobile DeviceExactly how were you the enabler? What did you (and he) do to get in this position? Why are you taking the fall?
Posted via Mobile DeviceI'm so sorry you are going through all of this alone. I had to do the same thing. My bankruptcy was completed last month; it really hasn't been as bad as I thought it would be. You will get through it and learn to adjust. However, I'm not so sure about your husband. Let him learn his lesson. He can't exactly put your name on anything now. Get a separate bank account and be responsible with spending.
You should have been able to keep one car. Is your dilemma over having a second car?
Unfortunately your husband still does not get it. My daughter recently had to have a car. With cash in hand, we went shopping. It took some effort, but we found her reliable transportation for $4K. I can tell you that I saw a lot of nice, dependable cars in that $10K range. But, they aren't new! That's the part your husband has got to get past.I wanted to let the car in my name (550.00) payment go in the bankruptcy and avoid having this SECOND car payment.
I was going to use 401k money to buy a used vehicle (10k) but he said that there was nothing in that price range that he would drive.
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