I've got a question for the ladies. How important is the physical attraction to your spouse a deal breaker in a marriage? My wife and I have had our share of problems in our 13 year marriage. But she has said a couple of times it is my overall size as a man that she is really struggling with. I'm 5'4" tall, 170#. Wife is 5'3" tall, 175#. Her partners in HS and college were all nearly 6' tall. She had a PA a couple years ago with someone 5'10". She has said they can do things to/with her that I can't because of my size. I can lose weight, gain muscle mass and tone, but not get taller. My size below the waist is average for my ethnicity. I think we look very good together. Do I need to just humble myself and admit I'm not what my wife needs and allow our marriage to move on from there? Is there a way for me to change the way she looks at me?