😐 I wouldn't know what the heck to do... the widowed part that isI need advice. I'm currently seeing a widower. Met almost two weeks ago. Nothing too serious as of yet, just in the getting to know you phase. His wife passed nine months ago.
I think he's been so lonely that having someone to talk to now has him oversharing. He's had a lot on his mind for quite a while obviously and is still in the process of figuring out how to navigate this new life he's found himself in and I think he's doing a lot of "talking out loud" to get it all straight in his head.
When his wife passed he inherited a lot from her. They had both been married previously but she never had children so everything went to him. He is now what I would consider wealthy and I have always intentionally avoided meeting wealthy men. I'm just not comfortable with it. I had been under the impression he was more of an average Joe financially. The way he dresses and his occupation combined with his personality had me really liking him but now I don't know how to navigate.
I really wish he hadn't shared this information with me. I feel like he's put me in a no win situation. How is he going to know if a woman is truly interested in him? The answer is he can't, not now at least with me. I feel like that topic will now be like a black cloud following my every move.
Though IMO inheritance doesn't mean wealth especially if he doesn't know what to do with it, if he isn't materialistic and it's not influencing his personality then why not?