My daughter is coming back home next week, it seems that I would have to take her to my workplace too now, but now I'm thinking of spoiling her senseless to end the guilt of seperating with my STBX. I plan to call my STBX tomorrow in regards to co-parenting which I found to be a good suggestion from this forum. However, how do I not spoil her? What should I do in single-daddyhood? What should I prepare myself for? Also, what if my daughter asks about me and mum, what do I say to her, without any risk of poisoning?