I would like to hear some opinions on different signs to see if my wife might be cheating. We have been together now for8 1/2 years and mrried for 4 1/2 years. Ofcourse, at the beginning the sex was non stop. I do accept the fact that sex drive in women declines after having children (2), but... She went out dancing with some of her girl friends two weeks ago and drank probably a little too much and told me how when she was dancing how many guys were hitting on her and she got tired of feeling guy private parts rubbing against her back side. I can't touch any of her "parts", she says they are too sensitive. We only have sex in one position, which is doggie - is this a sign she doesn't want to look at me anymore? No more oral where before it was everytime we had sex. She told me I had to back off just the other night. Just three days ago she told me that she can't give me what I want sexually and that it wasn't fair and she wants me to have secret affairs to satisfy my sexual needs. Fine, thats every mans dream, or is this a sign? We were at a bar and she said something I didn't quite hear about cheating and when I ask her to repeat what she said she had the deer in the headlight look and claimed she forgot what and where she was going with what she said, she wouldn't tell me. What confuses me is she will lay next to me and get real close, we'll spoon and BAM just like that she'll get up and say good night and go sleep in the kid's room leaving me turned on to the max - is this a game to her? We haven't slept in the same bed for 3 years, half a dozon times or so, says she can't sleep because I snor - believable. Heres a start and I'm really looking for some feedback. Thanks!