The app is installed on his phone, yes? Then he can't blame it on pop-up ads. He put it there and is using it to hide who he is talking to.I need some input. Just figured out that my husband of 10 years uses the app Signal private messenger. I was able to see the time stamps when he is using that app and this included times such as 2:22AM , during night time and during the day.
It has been downloaded on April 28th and it's in regular use since then. As of right now there is no way I can confront him because he belongs to these people who blame "pop-up ads" for literally everything.
Any experience with this app? Any advice for me?
If that is enough for you to divorce, then you don't need to do anything else. If you are hoping to reconcile or need more before pulling the plug, then investigate rather than confronting. If you confront him right now it will let him know that he needs to hide the evidence, which makes it harder for you to figure out what is going on.