ok.. ther is alot more to this story but il give the most recent problem......
Im 21..and ever since i was 16 i have been kissing a boy. but its just he is extremely shy and it seems to be just on his terms wenever we meet up. i might text message him and not get anything back. in front of friends, im not even noticed! even though half of them know the history we have. he could end up stayin in my house most weekends but cum the next day and drink is out of system, we'r back to square one. i know 'treat them mean, keep the keen' but im at the stage now where i am sick to death of this way. should i just not talk to him and show him how it feels to be nothing while in our friends company!! hopefully this might work.. if his eyes are still fixated on me that is!
are there any other tricks to (not to get his attention as such, dats easy) but make him man up and get over this shyness and start actually dating??
the option of leaving him go is just not gonna work for me as we have so much history and hes like always in my house with my brother as there great friends and i have tried the whole moving on fella but it always cums back to him..i love him like.. i know he does too but he just needs to start showing it like!!
Im 21..and ever since i was 16 i have been kissing a boy. but its just he is extremely shy and it seems to be just on his terms wenever we meet up. i might text message him and not get anything back. in front of friends, im not even noticed! even though half of them know the history we have. he could end up stayin in my house most weekends but cum the next day and drink is out of system, we'r back to square one. i know 'treat them mean, keep the keen' but im at the stage now where i am sick to death of this way. should i just not talk to him and show him how it feels to be nothing while in our friends company!! hopefully this might work.. if his eyes are still fixated on me that is!
are there any other tricks to (not to get his attention as such, dats easy) but make him man up and get over this shyness and start actually dating??
the option of leaving him go is just not gonna work for me as we have so much history and hes like always in my house with my brother as there great friends and i have tried the whole moving on fella but it always cums back to him..i love him like.. i know he does too but he just needs to start showing it like!!