Being betrayed is one of the most hurtful things someone can go through, yes your other half is most to blame for betraying you but what about the other person who they did it with it takes two to tango. Why should they get off scott free to go and do it to another family. Its not just the betrayed partner that gets hurt its the children and extending family and friends. The other affair partner most often goes in fully aware that they are married with a family but it doesn't bother them, maybe if there was a law fetched in where you could sue if they new about you and your children they might think twice. After all you can divorce your other half whether they want you to or not. They lose all your respect, their kids and families respect, and often lose everything, what does the other partner in crime lose, nothing they are free to go and help ruing someone else's life (which I no of quite a few what have done so). Its like all these women that go for famous footballers and pop stars they no they are married but it doesn't stop them. You can sue someone for saying something a bit racial or touching you a bit too friendly or even being a bit of a bully all sorts of things. But yet another person can help ruin your family's life and you cannot do a thing....Seems a bit sad to me. I suppose I m the only one to feel like this. Am I.