I posted on this sight about 2 years ago due to the fact my husband of 34 years was trying to tell me it was over!! He never actually said the words he just said things had to change was,nt sure but agreed and we moved on two years later. And here I am posting on this thread. It really really pains me to say that I have finally found out quite by accident that 6 years ago my husband had a brief fling as he calls it (approx 2 months)..my world just collapsed there and then!! That was July 7th one week before our 34th anniversary. He said he could not talk about it he was so ashamed there were tears I even left him for a period time , but after a lot of agonizing decided to give it another go! We have discussed it but not in great detail. But I have these terrible images that I just can't get out of my head. We have been together from the ages of 13 and 14 neither of us had ever slept with anyone else I truly thought we were soul mates!! I just feel so sad that he did this to us !! .will I ever get over this I find it so painfully I can't even wear my wedding rings!!are there any success stories out there to give me hope?