i have been on unemployment for all the time me and the hubby have been together, even after we got married, and was so used to spending my money on anything and everything i wanted, then we got married and bills came in to play, so now my hubby blames me for being irresponsible with my money and i should have had some savings for when i needed the extra money. he had lent me some money to fix my car which we both use to get to where we need to go and now all he does is complain about the money i owe him. is it me or is it wrong dor him to keep going on and on about the darn money, if hes my hubby and were supposed to be married shouldnt the husband be the main support system and the bread winner in the family, or have i been brainwashed by parents who taught me the wrong thing. So i mentioned that he should be the main bread winner and he went off on a rampage, and he blames me for why hes broke and has no money. right now we are struggling money wise, but its making our relationship worse and worse him keep bringing up the fact that i owe him money and he thinks the only reaosn i married him was to take all his money! he doesnt really make much money so theres not really much to take if i was a golddigger, but im not and i didnt intend for my financial situation to change and have him pay for everything. but dotn u think if he uses the car, he should also put into it in some way. We also have a baby on the way, our first one together and things just seem to be going more and more down hill, we barely talk, things arew weird, and rarely make love. i dont know what to do.