Hello my first post so please bear with me
my husband of 13 years has been having an on - off and i think still is having an affair-relationship with a widowed woman that i know, he has been bouncing back and forward for the best part of 16mths (my fault i know) for putting up with this, i am 99.9 pc sure that i have had enough of heartbreak, pain and all the other stuff that comes with infidelity i have been a living hell since i found out, both sides of our familes know also friends as i brought it all out into the open when i found out, could i have some ideas, imput or advice regarding this....... the woman pos that my husband is with has also been with another married man not an ongowing affair as such she slept with him a couple of times, i know both him and his wife, where they work and the likes we are not friends as such but would say hi if we met each other, we live in a small community where everyone more or less knows everyone else, i HATE the woman my husband was with and really want to mess her life up as she well i know both of them have mine, will i tell this other woman about her husband ? we both have mutual friends on facebook so its not a problem , half of me wants to (this lady hasnt a clue) or not ? i dont want to hurt her but i want to get at this woman my husband was with... but am going to devastate a lady that has done no harm to me into the bargain, when i get angry im about to do it and then part of me pulls back , please any thoughts on this are welcomed
my husband of 13 years has been having an on - off and i think still is having an affair-relationship with a widowed woman that i know, he has been bouncing back and forward for the best part of 16mths (my fault i know) for putting up with this, i am 99.9 pc sure that i have had enough of heartbreak, pain and all the other stuff that comes with infidelity i have been a living hell since i found out, both sides of our familes know also friends as i brought it all out into the open when i found out, could i have some ideas, imput or advice regarding this....... the woman pos that my husband is with has also been with another married man not an ongowing affair as such she slept with him a couple of times, i know both him and his wife, where they work and the likes we are not friends as such but would say hi if we met each other, we live in a small community where everyone more or less knows everyone else, i HATE the woman my husband was with and really want to mess her life up as she well i know both of them have mine, will i tell this other woman about her husband ? we both have mutual friends on facebook so its not a problem , half of me wants to (this lady hasnt a clue) or not ? i dont want to hurt her but i want to get at this woman my husband was with... but am going to devastate a lady that has done no harm to me into the bargain, when i get angry im about to do it and then part of me pulls back , please any thoughts on this are welcomed