After 18 years of a fairly solid monogamous (both of us) marriage, my wife sunk into a hormone related depression that involved a 2 month affair. She didn't know that I knew but I have 100% proof. I danced around it and gave her a chance to confess but she would not. She finally came to her senses and realized the impact on the family (2 kids, 12 & 16), and ended it. Now that it is over what are the pros and cons of confronting her with my proof? Our sex life has been more than most could ever ask for (5-6 times a week). I love her but she is lying thru her teeth.