Should I return to my husband of 7 years cause I miss being a family & having my son?
I was married for 7 years but with him for 15 years total. We had a son and he’s 6.
We separated almost 2 years ago and I have been dating someone for 14 months. (neither my son or husband know I am dating)
I am not divorced yet.
My husband is pushing to get back together by asking for marriage counseling.
I left because I was unhappy for numerous reasons but his addiction to weed and refusal to stop was a big reason.
I also fell out of love with him.
Initially I was so happy once I moved out on my own and had my exclusive time with my son.
I was happy that I was no longer with him.
But now, even though I do have my son about half the time, he always wants to be with his dad.
I feel like I am losing my son and miss being a family with my son.
Not having a good relationship with my son and him not wanting to be with me is making me terribly unhappy.
Reconciliation was never a possibility for me before because I knew I did not want to return to him and that unhappiness I had with him. But now, I think it might be the only way I can be happy and resolve what I am missing with my son.
I don’t know what to do.
I want my son and a family.
I was married for 7 years but with him for 15 years total. We had a son and he’s 6.
We separated almost 2 years ago and I have been dating someone for 14 months. (neither my son or husband know I am dating)
I am not divorced yet.
My husband is pushing to get back together by asking for marriage counseling.
I left because I was unhappy for numerous reasons but his addiction to weed and refusal to stop was a big reason.
I also fell out of love with him.
Initially I was so happy once I moved out on my own and had my exclusive time with my son.
I was happy that I was no longer with him.
But now, even though I do have my son about half the time, he always wants to be with his dad.
I feel like I am losing my son and miss being a family with my son.
Not having a good relationship with my son and him not wanting to be with me is making me terribly unhappy.
Reconciliation was never a possibility for me before because I knew I did not want to return to him and that unhappiness I had with him. But now, I think it might be the only way I can be happy and resolve what I am missing with my son.
I don’t know what to do.
I want my son and a family.