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Hi Everyone,
I would like to get some advice on my situation. Any help you can give would be great.
The brief on our story is that we dated for 6 months then found out she was pregnant. We broke up for a couple weeks during her pregnancy because she couldn't see us together in the future. After we got back together, things were great. We moved in together, had the baby, bought a house, then I proposed last November and have been married since (kinda). Last week, she said that I she didn't think I was the one and that we should part ways. She said that she has been thinking about this for a while and tried to make it work but the love isn't there. She can't give me what I want and vice versa. It really hurts to know that. I know that we hadn't had the best love for eachother. We have given our 3 year old all that we have. He has been the center of our world and her and we never had the chance to work on ourselves.
A couple nights ago, I mistakenly accused her of an emotional affair. I know that she is a flirty person and likes to be social. She has a boss that is a little older than her and there is a group of 5 of them that group text eachother alot. She's not that kind of person but I was just thinking and thinking...and thinking.
After that she decided to give me back her wedding ring because she felt guilty wearing it because I bought it w/ my money.
So today, I am moved out, have her ring and she wants a divorce.
My questions is, should I just move on or hope that she is not thinking things through and have hope for our marriage. We get along good and have had great memories. She is a quick thinker and acts w/o thinking sometimes and also needs control of situations.
What should I do??? Any help on here would be really appreciated!
I would like to get some advice on my situation. Any help you can give would be great.
The brief on our story is that we dated for 6 months then found out she was pregnant. We broke up for a couple weeks during her pregnancy because she couldn't see us together in the future. After we got back together, things were great. We moved in together, had the baby, bought a house, then I proposed last November and have been married since (kinda). Last week, she said that I she didn't think I was the one and that we should part ways. She said that she has been thinking about this for a while and tried to make it work but the love isn't there. She can't give me what I want and vice versa. It really hurts to know that. I know that we hadn't had the best love for eachother. We have given our 3 year old all that we have. He has been the center of our world and her and we never had the chance to work on ourselves.
A couple nights ago, I mistakenly accused her of an emotional affair. I know that she is a flirty person and likes to be social. She has a boss that is a little older than her and there is a group of 5 of them that group text eachother alot. She's not that kind of person but I was just thinking and thinking...and thinking.
After that she decided to give me back her wedding ring because she felt guilty wearing it because I bought it w/ my money.
So today, I am moved out, have her ring and she wants a divorce.
My questions is, should I just move on or hope that she is not thinking things through and have hope for our marriage. We get along good and have had great memories. She is a quick thinker and acts w/o thinking sometimes and also needs control of situations.
What should I do??? Any help on here would be really appreciated!