[vmorrow]

My husband responded to an email from his ex-girlfriend, saying he was just being polite. He promises not to respond to her emails again. Am I wrong to email the ex and tell her to butt out and get her own life? The thought that she thinks she can just email him makes me angry! My husband and I have been married 7 years, and she was the girlfriend before we met.

 

[Coffee Amore]

So she emailed ONCE and you're getting mad at that? What did the email say? Does your husband have a history of infidelity?

Unless she came on to him pretty obviously, I think you're overreacting. I don't understand why you're so angry at her. Let your husband handle it for now.

 

[SunnyT]

Depends on the content of the email. If she emailed that a friend in common passed away....that's allowed and requires no action on your part.

If she emailed reminicing about old times/good times.... or other intimate ideas.... then it's an issue.

BUT... he promised not to respond anymore because you have a problem with it. You should allow him to prove it to you. You have to give him a chance to show you that he doesn't care about her emails, or you undermine his integrity.

If you say you will handle something, then your SO butts in and tries to handle it.... then they have shown you that they don't think you will do the right thing. Crappy.

Don't email her.

 

[vmorrow]

She saw a picture of him (him on his new motorcycle) on FB and wanted him to email that picture to her. Kinda strange right? She is also married.

 

[Hope1964]

Is this the same thing you posted about already. or a different occurrence?

I asked you in your other thread why it is that you're checking up so obsessively on your husband. What has he done to raise your suspicions? Because really, you seem to be kind of obsessive here.

 

[vmorrow]

Well, I told you he is getting angry easy, and his sex drive is pretty much non existant. Hmmm I don't know, am I being obsessive?

 

[Hope1964]

OK so recently his sex drive took a nosedive and his fuse got a lot shorter? Plus you discovered this email? Did you discover the email before or after these changes?

 

[costa200]

She saw a picture of him (him on his new motorcycle) on FB and wanted him to email that picture to her.

Why would she need that? A little strange!

 

[Too Blue]

It's simple really..... ask for a picture of her husband chopping wood or something "manly". They will all say, "Well that's strange" and then you say, "you're right it is, isn't it?"

 

[Pollon]

Yes, you would be wrong to e-mail the girlfriend. What do you see as the benefit of contacting her?