I've been married for 2 years with my wife. Before getting married we had been dating for 10 years. Everything has been great. Lately she has been having a lot of communication with a co-worker. He lives in another state, however they will be seeing each other in a couple of months at a work function for a few days. He is also married. I appreciate that she has been somewhat honest with me and that she has told me most of the things that he has said to her. He has giving a Webcam and asked to get it on it a couple of times and she keeps telling me he did not mean anything bad by it! They usually talk everyday during the week and text each constantly. It's gotten to the point where she has missed lunch plans with me because he called and even came home late because they were on the phone together. I know that she flirts with him, since I once saw one of her text's to him. My problem is that she keeps telling me not to worry, which is hard to do since I have caught her keeping things from me.