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So Ive been in my relationship for over 2 years now. In these past 2 years I've made mistakes. My last mistake resulted
in my Boyfriend not wanting to visit my family or house. his explanation is that I have to learn that my actions have consequences and he does not feel comfortable going around my family. My problem is that its been 3 months now and I feel like im being punished for my mistakes which have been forgiven. not only that but since then I've been putting work into myself and my life and the relationship to grow from all this. so is he simply becoming to comfortable with the idea that he doesn't have to come around my family? Am I allowing it to go for too long? or should I just continue to give him time? during the holidays I really wanted him to come with my family as well and he decided not to. to continue his answer "you need to learn that your actions have consequences". I told him thats what I wanted for Christmas and of course its the same answer... Should I feel upset? or am I being too pushy and need to be more understanding?
in my Boyfriend not wanting to visit my family or house. his explanation is that I have to learn that my actions have consequences and he does not feel comfortable going around my family. My problem is that its been 3 months now and I feel like im being punished for my mistakes which have been forgiven. not only that but since then I've been putting work into myself and my life and the relationship to grow from all this. so is he simply becoming to comfortable with the idea that he doesn't have to come around my family? Am I allowing it to go for too long? or should I just continue to give him time? during the holidays I really wanted him to come with my family as well and he decided not to. to continue his answer "you need to learn that your actions have consequences". I told him thats what I wanted for Christmas and of course its the same answer... Should I feel upset? or am I being too pushy and need to be more understanding?