I've been married nearly 10 Years now, we have a 7 Year old daughter. I’m 31 & She Will be 30 in Jan.
She was a good women when we met but shortly after we married started partying and ended up cheating on me just before she got pregnant with our daughter while I’m pretty sure my daughter is mine that’s not a factor she’s mine I raised her, Nearly on my own the first 3 years of her life. my wife has always been immature and insecure to the point of when we decided to get married she said if we were going to be married I had to tell all my friends men/women to go to hell I can't see them anymore because her logic was if I have female friends id sleep with them and if I had male friends that would introduce me to women that I would then sleep with *note* never cheated in my life but foolishly I did what was asked *note* she was so insecure the first 2 years we were married that when I was in a good mood she would walk up to me and blatantly say "Who are you ****ing" because apparently I could only be happy if I was having sex with someone else.. Sign... then she cheated on me and that shut her up about that for a year tell she started her I’m a rock star party animal phase she got a tattoo started drinking heavy *note* comes from a family of complete alcoholics *note* she has spent the last 8 years now out a few days a week partying. What has changed in the last 2 years my health a failed my body’s betraying me left and right so I would have thought she would have started to grow up to be there with her husband well she hasn't she’s overwhelmingly put her friends above me and our daughter and the basic question I want to know with just this drop in the bucket of information I’ve posted about our marriage she’s nearly 30 isn't time to pack it in and grow the hell up I’m not sure there’s much more I can take I’ve start contemplating suicide i'm too sick to start over and i have tried so many time over the last few months to talk to her shes just get pissy at me and says so i cant have friends then, i tell her that i would like her to just think of her family first that she is married and getting too old to be acting like a kid she then just looks through me and repeats so i cant have friends i just like to hang out with my friends and i get nowhere with her might as well be talking to a spot on the wall...
She was a good women when we met but shortly after we married started partying and ended up cheating on me just before she got pregnant with our daughter while I’m pretty sure my daughter is mine that’s not a factor she’s mine I raised her, Nearly on my own the first 3 years of her life. my wife has always been immature and insecure to the point of when we decided to get married she said if we were going to be married I had to tell all my friends men/women to go to hell I can't see them anymore because her logic was if I have female friends id sleep with them and if I had male friends that would introduce me to women that I would then sleep with *note* never cheated in my life but foolishly I did what was asked *note* she was so insecure the first 2 years we were married that when I was in a good mood she would walk up to me and blatantly say "Who are you ****ing" because apparently I could only be happy if I was having sex with someone else.. Sign... then she cheated on me and that shut her up about that for a year tell she started her I’m a rock star party animal phase she got a tattoo started drinking heavy *note* comes from a family of complete alcoholics *note* she has spent the last 8 years now out a few days a week partying. What has changed in the last 2 years my health a failed my body’s betraying me left and right so I would have thought she would have started to grow up to be there with her husband well she hasn't she’s overwhelmingly put her friends above me and our daughter and the basic question I want to know with just this drop in the bucket of information I’ve posted about our marriage she’s nearly 30 isn't time to pack it in and grow the hell up I’m not sure there’s much more I can take I’ve start contemplating suicide i'm too sick to start over and i have tried so many time over the last few months to talk to her shes just get pissy at me and says so i cant have friends then, i tell her that i would like her to just think of her family first that she is married and getting too old to be acting like a kid she then just looks through me and repeats so i cant have friends i just like to hang out with my friends and i get nowhere with her might as well be talking to a spot on the wall...