So she's a bit embarrassed? The difference here is she knows where I put any kind of sex media. Movies books etc. I do not hide it from her. So embarrassed makes sense. Thanks for the input fiora.
So she's a bit embarrassed? The difference here is she knows where I put any kind of sex media. Movies books etc. I do not hide it from her. So embarrassed makes sense. Thanks for the input fiora.A lot of women aren't open to the fact that they not only read these things but enjoy them. So naturally there's a little embarrasment about leaving them out on the coffee table like it's a mystery novel. Just like a guy keeps hustlers in a box in a closet, so too do women keep erotica hidden. It's not really trash, it's just her getting into a more emotional and fantasy type satisfaction. Trashy would be if you were finding S&M Blazer Group vids on her desktop. Let her have her books, and her secret, just like you boys have yours ;]
Yes it is hidden. It is beneath everything else with the cover facing down. It's one of those fabio type covers..She's embarrassed?
However, I would NOT say that "hidden in her lunch kit" is hiding it! LOl
She's openly reading it at work on break/lunch.
She probably just left it there.
If it is in a stack with other books, could she possibly have finished reading that romance novel & is on to the next one?
Hubby knows that I read lots of romance books. True, some get racier than others.. some not, just good romantic storyline. There were only a couple times I really tried to hide the cover...Yes it is hidden. It is beneath everything else with the cover facing down. It's one of those fabio type covers..
And no she hadn't finished reading it/them.
I'm not bothered by it in the least.I would just accept it, women love the visual images they get in their mind from reading hot erotic novels. ALL women do it. Let it go!
Ha! Sorry I couldn't resist. I have always wanted to respond like that, you know how some people will tell women that, whose husbands are watching porn, get over it they all do it! There is a lot of that that goes on when it comes to porn.
Anyway the above is not my real advice to you, and sorry If I was making light of the subject. The hiding it and lying about it though is in response to how you would react, its more than likely the same with men who hide their porn from their wives.
I thought about that as we do have kids and I'm sure a certain amount of secrecy has to do with that. However I know she is actively hiding it from me as she does certain things like hiding the cover when reading it and not answering in a truthful way when I ask her whats she's reading. lol.A lot of people have no problem saying romance is trash. Also, do you have kids? That'd be a good reason to be a bit secretive about them . . . or maybe it's just me and my precocious readers--I put the Jean Auel books into hiding this week--I do not want to cover some things with my eight year old. He can stick to straight up anatomical facts for a while.