well shes been gone for 2 weeks, tried the mc etc, we were not married but engaged, been together for 4.5 yrs, shes 25 im 36.. lots has happened, maybe an age thing, i am trying the NC approach since last thurs, over the weekend, today she had to email me about her cat etc so i caught myself trying to talk to her. i bombarded her with emails texts etc for almost 2 weeks. i know it isnt helping, i just want her back so badly. part of me knows she still loves me but the other thinks this heavy relationship was too much too soon for her. shes stubborn any suggestions with dealing with a stubborn girl. she hasnt had a chance to miss me yet as ive been doing all the things im not suppose to do. we live in a small town of about 90k and the weekends are gonna suck due to us hanging out at the same places. since no contact i actually feel alot better..